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Sep 06, 2008, 09:48 PM
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Member Since: Jul 2008
Location: east of the sun, west of the moon
Posts: 2,259
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Silent and Scared,
My insiders got very angry with me when I didn't want to admit I had insiders. For a long time I was not nice to them and it made it worse for them. If I had just been sweet to them sooner it would have been helpful.
I finally got on a forum, a closed forum for people with DID and my littles started writing what THEY wanted to say. They were quite angry and said some really, uh, bad comments - like cursing and all because they had stored up their anger for so long and it hurt them so much.
When no one got angry with them for talking angry they began to calm down and share more of why they were upset. They just need to be heard and not told they are liars. When a person is little they don't always make sense of how they say things. They don't have to say things like a grownup would. They have lots of pain and need to be comforted.
I believe them and I believe me own insiders. I just HAD to STOP DENYING THEIR REALITY.
Leslieann  
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