Thanks again everyone your all your help. It seems like once things start getting better something happens. Turns out that more than just talking happened between them so I asked her about it and she lied to me. My husband is still talking to her and now she is moving out of her boyfriends place. To me it seems like nothing is stopping them now. Am I overreacting? I don't want to push him away, but I don't want him to think he can have a wife and a girlfriend.