Thank you all. Everyone always adds that I'm a great mother to have such awesome kids and I always have a hard time believing that. They sure make me proud and happy, though. Actually, (going to ramble for a moment), my youngest struggles so hard in school and once in middle school she got a D on a test and when she told me I hugged her and said I was proud of her. Poor baby was crying and pulled away, looked up at me and said "I said a D, not a B." Told her I know and was proud of her--she didn't get an E and she took the test and tried her hardest and came home and told me, which meant she wanted to improve on it. Told her I'm not proud of her only when she brings home A's and B's. So why can I do it with my kids and not me????? Hmmm Anyway, thank you all for taking the time to read and respond.