please take what you need and discard the rest of what i am about to say....

i went almost 12 years without Si... and then some very triggering... stressors hit... and back to old coping methods... and t... i think that we have to revisit our abuse issues at different times in our lives... that when new issues open the old wounds, we need to do some more healing... i think that if si has started again... maybe it's time to revisit the idea of going back to t... for me this last bout with si... has been more extreme then ever before...please take gentle care...lyn