kd,
here's my opinion of the sharing.....if you are deemed capable to handle this information now then your security clearance isn't going to be revoked. I sense that you're in a place where you're strong enough with enough support around you to 'handle' what is coming up and out. Sure there will be feelings of one step forward and two back but that doesn't mean the sharing will stop.
I believe the sharing will continue to evolve and take different forms.
As for the white coats? As long as we're honest with our teams we're okay. My team has assured me that I'd have to be swinging from the chandeliers to have the white coats come.
thinking of you sweetie.