((((((((((((((((( zh ))))))))))))))))))))))) thank you. that's what i've always heard about sharing. i needed to hear it again

t and i discussed at length reasons for hosp against will. i have no fear of that. i've never been in hosp. he told me 3 or 4 specifics that would get me there...don't even feel close to those, so thank goodness that isn't a fear for me right now. i'm glad you and yours have this understanding as well.

thanks again for support!

kd