Ya i believe a few louder words are o.k. to get a point across but what my kids are going thro is so unfair. Your all so right and helpful!
I keep telling him being positive breeds more positive which i truely believe in. He's Negative,angry, cheap, swears, never helps, grrr what wrong with me, i put up with this for so long, i put my kids thro this and for what? I didn't want to hurt his feelings. I've been crying to almost 2 years because of the above traits and he's lazy. I used to think, well on day when i really need him he'll help me, well that day/year came and gone with nothing!