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Old Sep 08, 2008, 02:30 PM
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Originally Posted by earthmama View Post
Oy.

I know I'm overreacting, but I can't get any perspective on it to see why I'm reacting the way I am. I have no idea. Which is why I'm typing this here - to see if someone can think through it with me.
Oh earthmama.....I'm so sorry.
(((((((((((((((((((((((((((earthmama))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

After all the wonderful stories I've read about your T I am surprised to hear him acting like this.

I don't think you are overreacting. You told him what you needed. You were very specific and you made sure he understood...you told him several times. And he didn't give it to you. You have a RIGHT TO BE ANGRY. I would be angry if I were you.

I'm not criticizing your T - maybe there was some profound intelligent reason and lofty therapeutic goal for bringing up this topic at this particular time that is way over my head.

But that doesn't change the fact that you asked him for something you needed and he didn't come through.

Allow youself to have your feelings. Allow yourself to have some distance from him. And then when you are cooled off maybe you will feel like talking to him about it. It will be OK - it will it will it will.

sending lots of hugs and happy thoughts,
please be good to yourself,


ktgirl