Earthmama, I'm sorry you had a bad session. The thing that would bother me is your T didn't respect you enough to listen when you said I don't want to talk about this. I haven't yet said no to my T about not wanting to talk about things because I haven't told her very deep stuff. My last session I did give her a letter of some deep issues and she said if she brings it up and I don't feel ready to talk she will respect that. I believe her on that. Your T sounds like he pushed you. I am not at the comfort level of getting mad/angry at T so I can't realy give to much thought but just maybe he wanted you to get angry and take back your power. Like when you went to the guy's house maybe you didn't yell and scream your wants and that guy ended up talking advantage and now you are practicing in therapy how to be assertive with T. I don't know just a thought. Hugs!