(((((((((( earthmama )))))))))))

You do have a good T there. Wouldn't it be good if we went to every therapy session and insisted on not doing much? But the fact is that therapy has to be therapy. Your T had to open up the wound a little, spray some anaesthetic in it and then sew it up. Ouchies for sure!

Your T's hugs are safe and always have been but the asshole minister's were not. The child within you would have felt angry about that but wouldn't have been able to say at the time. Lots of transference flying around in that session. You had no power as a child but you had some power in that session, see?

Healing is happening.