I've been dating my bf for 5 months now. He is sweet to me and treats me like a princess when I am with him. whenever we are together it's hard for us to leave one another and time flies by. He phones me almost every night. The one problem is is that I feel that he doesn't want to see me sometimes. I've brought this up with him before. I told him that I feel like I do all the planning to see one another and I feel that sometimes he makes excuses to not see me. Some of these excuses include that he's tired and doesn't want to be tired around me. We see each other only about 1-2 times a week. We both work and we both are going to school in the fall. I know I sound a little paranoid...I guess I really like him and am afraid he doesn't have those same feelings. He never says I love you. I have my own insecurities. I feel like I am a boring person to be around...and sometimes I feel like the only thing I'm good for is having sex or just cuddling and what not. Growing up I didn't have very many close relationships. I was an only child grosing up and I didn't have close relationsp with my parents. I can't tell them everything. I feel like I have built walls around me to keep people out because I'm fearing rejection. I needed to write this because I didn't want to sabotage my relationship if it is still a good thing. I also don't want to get used or not be loved truly....help