Don't forget, too, that, like teenagers, mom's (and dad's) are real people too. I know we are supposed to be the strong ones, the ones with all the answers, but like mentioned by Sannah, possibly she's frustrated and definately she's worried about you. Sigh. It's so hard and I hate that you're hurting. If you and your mom can't talk right now, can you possibly sit down and write your feelings, thoughts, problems, wishes, needs to her, then leave it for her to read when you aren't around, so she can't confront you without having time to process it?