Immigrants do come there and they do make it. Many get jobs doing menial labor and sum make a success. It is different for me though even here. I don't have the same rights or help that an immigrant or asylum seeker has because I come from a western country and I am came here by choice not need. An Asylum seeking immigrant is supported with housing, and basic necessities and there are more programs to get them integrated and working.
I do have the positive of speaking english and knowing how things work in America but I need a reason to want to come back and do what I have to do to make a life there. I don't have that now.

There is nothing here for me to have legal right to. I take what I brought. Besides, in Norway it takes 1 year from filing for divorce for the court to declare it final. You also have to file for separation first and it all takes time.

My husband would not send me away empty handed, he knows why I want to go but the problem is he doesnt have the money and he wants me to stay.

Thank you for your kind thoughts. I'll be ok.
Heidu

The highest reward for a person's toil is not what they get for it, but what they become by it.
John Ruskin