CJR:
I have to agree with Wisewoman. I was in much the same situation as a child and I think it's wonderful that your children, your grandchild and your neices/nephews are comfortable showing affection to you and your sis. That's what I dream of for my children, and already we've done something for our children that wasn't done for us.
We showed them nurturing and love and support. You did a great job. Thanks for sharing this, as I can relate to it and it has touched on some emotions that I, myself, have been trying to work through.
Many blessings,
Kimberly.