Hi Dustin,

I have to agree with the others - you should talk to her about these feelings and work them through in therapy. Don't expect her to fall in to your arms though - these feelings are common in the therapeutic situation and though all good therapists know how to deal with it, there are very strong ethical guidelines and boundaries which must be maintained to protect both you and her from emotional damage and legal consequences.

But yes, there can be love without "acting-out" the transference. I'm sure she'll be able to help you through it.

Best of luck - let us know how it goes

BTC