</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
What are the appropriate zones of touch between f's and daughters when hugging? . . . He held me tight (makes me feel like I can't get away) and put his hands on the small of my back below my waist. He kissed me on the side of my neck. And as he was letting me go he ran his hands around my waist and briefly rested his hand on my abdomen. It felt gross.

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post">

i get triggered any time i feel trapped. i notice you also felt trapped [you wrote "feel like I can't get away"] it doesn't make you nuts to have a flashback. my counselor said it's a normal response.

hugs have always been difficult for me. sometimes just a look from my husband scares me or makes me feel gross.