I called my son's teacher before school this morning and talked about it all.
She's now talked to the boys involved and they said sorry to my son.
My son's teacher is very good and I know she'll take care of this.

I can't stand G being hurt in any way. He's struggling so hard already as it is.
Of course he reacts more to the words spoken to him since he's got AS and ADHD and doesn't fully understand the social interaction with his friends.
Kids can say things to each other in the heat of the moment and then be friends again after half an hour... but if the same things are being said to my son he takes them to heart and thinks he's useless and just lost a friend for good.

But then there are other things that just is not acceptable to say or do and my son's teacher is now aware of what's been happening.

I'm so tired... only feel like crying... after a long summer of my son feeling so bad and now this...

Thanks all of you who have written to me and given support!

Now... this evening G is feeling much better. When he came home from the respite he hugged me and said: "You're the best mom! Thank you for always helping me! Thank you for calling C (his teacher)!... I know now that you love me, mom." This really brought tears to my eyes.