im 45 yrs old and have a form of ocd on the sexual side .ihave had it since i was 12 years old. this has haunted me all my life and caused great distess to me and the the people who are closest to me.about 5 yrs ago i finaly started getting the right treatment for it. but it was'nt diagnosed as ocd back than. a year ago my therapist came to the conclusion that i have form of ocd. Most of tthe symptoms i have under control. But the one that causes the biggest problem in my marriage is the one my wife hates ( looking at any and all woman).i am onmedication wiich has helped tremendously but as allways i slip now and than.
MY wife ca not understand that this is part of the disorder she thinks im looking for someone else.
But iam am not.
I AM A GOOD PERSON WITH A GOOD HEART and she knows thiis. I just wish she could understand the rest