This seems like an epic struggle to me.
I cannot help but think that the other parts were being very expressive that day and you should point blank ask him about his response that day and what he was trying to convey to you and the others.

Question - does it not feel safe in there usually, and if so why was that day that safety was so imperative?
Hopefully this is not a dumb question I am new to posting here. Have mercy.



tuliptorn