hey sept, I am not sure I understand. I feel like I need this to be a supportive and caring place and I do not at all like the conflict. We can have conflict IRL. I know you are quick to support and I am personally greatful for that. I just wonder if we can asume the best from eachother and act with love? Does this make sense? I too am quick to express my opinion but am slowly learning to sit a minute first and try to get a bigger understanding. I am trying to act with a loving heart and not jump to judgement against my peers, my fellow human beasts.