I have 2 children as you all know. One being a 17 year old boy. I can say with out a doubt If a girl came into school weraing a low cut shirt he would look. I think its called hormones. Which rage at that age.
My other child is a 20 year old girl. When she was in school you followed the dress code or were given a shirt or your parents were called. All teachers and the principle inforced the code. I was lucky i was never called.
I can say now . Stlyes of cloths have changed in the last few years and low cut is out in all the stores the kids shop at. So it really is pushed down thier throats by media , magazines they read. And what is in the stores.
The one thing i can say we as parents are responsable for how out kids walk out the door in the morning. What they are wearing. Its really falls right in our laps.
I know kids can take other cloths and change on the bus , in the bathroom. But when that phone call comes as it should if they are dressed in correct or do something out of line at school. Its our job as parents to face the music so to speak.
As i have done many a time with my son. Once on his B day. I think last year. He left the house fully dressed. AHHH I got a phone call from the bus driver as a heads up that my son went into school in his ,.......yes...in his underwear get it Birthday suit. His school is a hour and half away. He did this with out me knowing, with out the bus driver knowing till too late. You'll love this ....it took till second period before he was sent to the principles office. Now how can that happen. One teacher choose to ignore it. How can you ignore that.
Sorry got carryed away here......
My point is kids are kids . They follow whats on tv and what is sold in stores
We as parents need to see how our kids leave school. Then the school needs to do thier job too.
Also we as parents teachers everyone need to reliaze kids are going to try to get away with as much as they can at times. Like my son.
I know this did not help much I hope alittle
Muffy