oh dang - i'm only 20 but i've tried for three years to "reconnect" with someone... and i keep getting these "bursts of feelings" for him every year and every time we try to talk again, it just doesn't work out.

and now - he broke up with a gf in mid-august, i tried to rekindle our friendship [then my current partner found out and i stopped], and the other day i found that he has a new gf already.

it's exactly like it was three years ago. he hasn't changed A BIT. hahahaha. oh well. guess i was a fool for thinking he'd grown up..

it really depends on the person, sometimes they work out, sometimes they don't.

basically, i believe that if there really was a problem before, that problem is going to be there years after. unless they went to therapy or hardly worked on self-improvement. (hehe, my favourite cure for everything)

if they don't know it's a problem, it's not gonna be a problem.

hope you get your bipolar stuff sorted out (((NF))). best of luck!