I have gone into chat myself a few times and heard others say that they felt ignored, abandoned, etc. In fact, I had a conversation last night with someone who felt that way and so I spent an extra amount of time trying to help them and cheer them up. I hope I was helpful anyway.

I think there are a number of things at work here...

* Lurkers or people who are too shy to join in a conversation
* People who are hurting so bad that they are unable to help
* People who just can't relate a particular issue someone has brought up
* Lot's of people talking at one time and so you just kind of get "lost in the crowd"

I might have missed a few reasons here. For the most part I Usually just post in the forum but I do enjoy going into chat from time to time. If you ever want to PM me you are always welcome!!:-)

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