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Sep 13, 2008, 08:40 AM
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Earthmama,
What a classic tale! You are too funny! ROFL
What a great idea, to give your T a box so he keeps a part of you with him at all times! It's really nice that he kept it with him, that he wanted to do this. I know these are my emotions, not thoughts, but I now feel resigned to the feeling that T doesn't want any part of me with him.
I can imagine that the other box from another person must have hurt, because your box and the fact that T kept it was special to you. T was telling you he wanted to be reminded of you, that he was thinking about you and hoping you were doing well even when you weren't there. 
Plus, this reminds you that T has other clients, which reminds you that T is clearly breaking a Handbook Rule. You should remind him of this.
Bigger isn't always better, lol. Remember, your box was placed with T's personal things. It must be difficult looking at that box in session. Yes, it is helping someone else and that is good BUT not when it is YOUR T doing the helping. I'm glad you found a good use for it though, lol.
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