Thanks to ALL of you. I knew people here would understand all of my feelings - the pain of seeing the box and sharing T, the jealousy, the desire for "revenge" against the other box person....and just the fun of laughing with T about it.

I'm so glad T laughed with me when I told him my idea about putting my bad ideas in the other person's box. He was genuinely amused, and it totally made me feel like is was "Me and T" vs. HER.

Ahhhhh, therapy!