The most important thing in therapy is the relationship. Do you have a good relationship? Do you trust him? You should be able to work something out that you both can be happy with. Maybe one session you can work on integration and the next session you can work on everyday things. You do need to work on everyday things. Everyone in therapy needs to do that.
I'm working on trauma and we work on it every other week. My T said it's like surgery, you open the wound and then you close it up and give it time to heal. On the off weeks we work on whatever else I want to work on.
Hope you can work something out.
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