Honestly I would have prob run home to see him. But last softball season I did not
so i am going to go out with the team, we always go out after the game. They are a great bunch of people so it makes it so much easier because i want to hang out with them. I am working on my own independence, i realize how important it is for me as well as in relationships.
thank you for your post!!
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Originally Posted by SpottedOwl
Great job joining the softball team!
The best advice I can offer about staying strong is to be forgiving of yourself. If you have a bad day, that is ok. The important thing is to accept yourself and be kind to yourself even on those bad days.
If the softball team is going out after a game, but your bf is about to come home -- will you go home to see your bf or will you go out with the team?
For years I would have run home to see my bf. The problem with that is I was putting him first, at the expense of what I needed to be happy. Take small steps if you need to, but try practicing putting yourself first sometimes.
HTH
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