OK. I don't know how big of a deal this is or even if it is a deal at all. I was replying to a post in the anxiety forum. Today I went back in to se if the original poster had additional comments ( i do this). Well, the persons wife (under the posters screen name) replied and said that her husband wasnt being honest in his post and that he had far worse issues that he wasnt being forthcoming about. She told me to email her for further details. Against my better judgment I emailed. i knew I shouldnt have and now I feel weird about it. Anyway, I'm feeling like she betrayed her husband by coming here under his name. I feel that she may have been snooping. I feel like I have contributed to this by emailing her and I feel terrible. At the same time, Im feeling bad for her because she is feeling anxious and afraid. I dont know. Does any of this make sense. I feel unsettled.