Hi Jen,

I sure can understand your feeling "unsettled". I had an internet pen-pal and would write her often. She was having marital problems but to make matters worse she had to be admitted to a psych hospital due to mental illness. Unbeknownst to me- here I am writing to her about her marriage-- then her HUSBAND, whom I don't even know- emails me back under her address. It was very unsettling!!

But you know, you were just being helpful.
I don't think it's right of someone to use another's name or address and especially answer something that wasn't even written TO them. Sorry this happened to you.

Mandy