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Good grief, there's no need for you to get so defensive.

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Defensiveness is a feeling.

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You're living in your own head on that one.

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That's an accusatory and judgemental statement.

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...when you are in a more rational frame of mind.

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Again, judgemental. You don't know me, therefore you don't know my frame of mind.

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Feel free to re-read my posts

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I've read enough of your posts that I know I don't care to read any more of them.

This is a forum for working on our own self-esteem without the need of cutting other people down, accusing them and judging them to make ourselves feel better. That is NOT what self-esteem is all about.