Colleges have many, many extracurricular groups, pick one, for you,and hopefully that will do the trick..or try online communities that are local, then meet up with people there where you live, meetup.com has groups of people meet up doing whichever activity you pick out if you have a diagnosis you could go to a support group all my best friends are from a local support group dbsalliance.org (click on find support) people here are open to friendships and feelings such, as these