Well, you certainly have my sympathy and I hope you can find a solution that you will be happy with. I can't tell you what to do with your life. Maybe you might want to see a counselor for help with dealing with this situation. Other than that I'm at a loss for words so I'll just add good luck. Of course you can always keep on coming here for support and for a place to write more on it, too. That's a tough situation there.
<font color=purple>"Shared joy is double joy; Shared sorrow is half-sorrow." Swedish Proverb</font color=purple>