Angelgirl... you have got to talk to a therapist about this. You're making sweeping generalizations that are very harmful for you. There IS hope and there ARE solutions, but you have to be willing to tackle the reality of how you are contributing to the breakups. I only know (from reading the rather rude public breakup you had to endure) that you might come across as excessively needy, and if that is a consistent reason that guys have broken up with you, then it IS something you can fix about yourself. And definitely head back to the self-esteem forum. You're as welcome there as anyone else is!

Look, I don't know how old you are, but take me for example. I'm 35 and just got married. That means that everyone I have dated from age 15-30 somehow 'rejected' me or for whatever reasons, the relationship was not 'right' for both parties involved. You can't abandon hope of finding a relationship because you haven't found the right one in... how many adult years have you been dating? I think you're still young, so please don't despair if relationships aren't working out yet.

Anyway, off my soapbox. Points are:
1) WE are not rejecting you and want you to stay and particpiate
2) talk to a therapist about this hopelessness

Love,
LMo