Hi Kendyll,
I've heard that different alters may need different prescription glasses or NO glasses. It seems reasonable that both may need somewhat different sponsors or recovery.
Another thing, just an idea since I don't know your bf's alts. Can they do anything co-consciously? Is it possible for them to try to share this for the first time. As you know recovery takes time and sustained efforts. I just think that anything they can do together would save time and energy.
Somehow they will work out something for mutual benefit I'm sure. In the midst of all this BE SURE to take good care of Kendyll!!! Your recovery is JUST as important as their's is!!!
Leslie's gang,