Thank you all SO much,

I will take your suggestions and do them. Asking beats "guessing" any day. I felt that first twinge of insecurity and as EarthMama put it it is better to find out than drive myself crazy with obsessing on it. Phew! I feel better.

Thanks for the kind things you all have said, I do want to be a good listener and have compassion - we sure all do need that at times!!!

((((((Kendyll))))) (((((((EarthMama)))))) ((((((JudeeB)))))) and

(((((FuzzyBear))))) Thanks also for modelling compassion and kindness!

Leslie's issue, not the Pixies today! =) ----->