I don't know how or from whom you got the notion you don't understand just 'cos you are 'old'. Please realize that you are dealing w/ others who are very 'moody' (an understatement). People say things they don't mean. For the most part, we're all on a different journey. Whether it be 50 years Dx'd or 50 min. ago, we're all diss.
Please don't go. I'm sure nobody would make you stay but don't let a few people who got under your skin ruin the good support you give & get here. Notice I said 'give' meaning YOU give support too. Also try to remember when you were first Dx'd, sometimes we are just not ready to hear some things.
Love,
RhysMadison