This is the reason I have signed up here. I spend quite a few hours each day on the internet. I'm not sure when it took control of my sex life. I guess since I am single and live a lone I have no obstacles to this indulgence. At this point I don't feel like I have much control. I would like to answer questions for anyone doing research in this area in hopes of gaining clarity as to why it has become such a driving force in my life.