Thank you all for the input. Part of me thinks my husband feels the same way but just won't admit it. I've asked him plenty of times, He is a good man, I feel awful because I should be greatful. He doesn't abuse me in anyway, He loves his kids and is constantly doing things with them. He has never cheated on me or anything like that. I'm scared that if I chose to leave I would never find someone thats a good a man as he, but when you constantly try to find things to do together and always come up empty handed, what to do then? I like socializing and being around people and he would rather sit at home all the time. He also plays the victim alot, and is pessimistic about alot of things and both those things together are a HUGE turn OFF for me. I've told him too but he feels he shouldn't have to change. I don't think I could ever go through with an affair, for my childrens sake, not his. I'll keep trying to work it out though. Hopefully it'll get better, It's sad when you are married with two children yet even when your home with a full house you feel extremely lonely;