Endofrope, he needs to take those meds at the SAME time EVERY day. I have ADHD and I have worked my butt off trying to better myself. It seems like your husband is not trying at all. He wants you to take care of him while he spends and does what he wants when he wants. I think he may be using ADD as an excuse for his actions. A friend of mine is the same way, it seems common sense is thrown out the door and he blames it on someone or something else, needless to say his relationships, and work never goes anywhere. He needs to concentrate more, write things down, everything from the checkbook to the messages he gets on the phone. Some people who are diagnoses give up others try harder. It is good that you have helped him, but you can only do so much. He needs to help himself and it sounds like he isn’t even trying. If you can get into counseling then go for it, if he doesn’t want to go then you need to ask yourself if you want to live this way for the rest of your life. I am sorry for being harsh, but you live life only once. He lied to you before, that is a big no no in my book, and he may never stop lying if that is the case. Believe me, I know.