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Sep 20, 2008, 12:04 AM
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Member Since: Sep 2008
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I am a 34 year old woman. I fell deeply in love with a 23 year old. We meet when he was 20 and I was still married. I have divorced my husband and am now in a relationship with the love of my life. Recently ( because he lives very far away) he stayed with me for a significant amount of time. I had noticed a couple of times that my dildo had been left out. I asked him about it finally and he reluctantly explained that he was curious and had tried it out. I had asked him if he thought he was gay and he responded no, he loved me and loved women and he was not gay at all, just curious, then stated it hurt and he did not like it.
Upon a conversation ( while having phone sex) he admitted the second time he really liked the way it felt. On occasion when having phone sex he has brought up the fantasy of me using a strap on on him. Which will sometimes grow into another man having sex with him while I watch. I do believe he has a dominance fetish, and although I would be open to this, I am still terrified I am getting into a relationship with a man who may be gay. Please help me understand.
thank you
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