Feb I got a DUI, spent 11 days in jail. after that my wife and I grew apart a bit and she went to her mother for comfort and I went to my friends. Her parents have been involved in our marriage from the get go, but my wife says theyhavent (of course) aug. I got into a bar fight and someoen got hurt, so Im looking at jail time now. hopefully only 30 days. But my wife left me and tells me she isnt sure if she can put her heart back into our marriage. I realize now all teh BS Ive done and am dedicated to change my wife and my ways. but I dont think divorce is the answer. But she is giving up...

Any suggestions???