Yeah, I agree with Larry, get out while you can. You are fortunate enough to be able to have orgasms and more than one even. You would be the envy of many women and most men would delight and pride themselves on being able to give you more than one. They'd be thrilled to give you the pleasure more than once. Anyone who wants to control you and undermine you sexually is bad news. You'd be in a happier relationship with someone who was willing to give and receive as much as you are.