Kimmy, this has got to be tough. First of all I want you to know that you have my undying support in this. While I have no real experience with children with the exception of my younger bro and sis, I have plenty of experience with drugs as you well know. And being a recovering addict, I feel that I MIGHT have something to offer here... I hope. Hittin the weed is by no means drug free and I've yet to see a recovering addict smoke weed without it leading to other drugs. That's without all the rx's your bro has. Throw those in the mix and it's a major relapse waiting to happen. If you ask me, this should most definately go to child services. You said that your t is involved. Is he aware that your bro is planning to continue the weed use? If you ask me, it's a disaster in the making. I've spent many years around drug use... both mine and my dad's. It wrecked his life. I despise the fact that you and little man have to go through this with all of my being. You're definately on the right track with this. You have such a good head on your shoulders and you always seem to do and say the right thing. Little man is so very lucky to have you in his life. I'm sorry if I came on strong there. You know that I meant no offense. You and yours are in my thoughts and prayers. Take care princess.

Ry