Thank-you all for your replies, I just feel that there's something more I should be doing. I have a child the same age as the wife to be, and it makes me crazy to think that she's not going to do anything about it. As one reply said might happen, my letter has gone without action. I just don't understand. If I knew my child was in the path of a molester, I would move the earth to get him out of there. I keep wondering if she got the letter, or maybe she thinks I'm an ex-girlfriend trying to cause trouble. I want to call her. I need to do more. What if she never got the letter, he could of opened it. (They live together). I know there is only so much I can do, but I just don't feel that I've done enough. As for my sister, I agree that I can not make her get help. I've tried in the past, and I believe she will never get it. Which I find very sad, and frustrating. But there's nothing more I can do for her except be there. Which is not easy, because we've grown distant. I could use some advice on how much to push with the wife to be.
thanks