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Old Sep 20, 2003, 10:41 AM
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{{{{{{{{{{{{{Forgotten}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} No way are you worthless!! I echo the thoughts of everyone here. You're a sweet, caring person! You give of yourself constantly which tells me you still have a lot inside that isn't damaged!

It's not you who is worthless but the person that made you feel that way! My first husband did the same to me. Everything I said and everything I did was wrong, according to him. Twelve years later, when my mother and a very good friend finally convinced me that I needed to get him out of my life is when I realized that maybe he had been wrong. Now I know he was!

There is so much good in you!! You have a big heart! My ex-husband and the person who made you feel so bad are the worthless ones. They spread nothing but bad feelings! That doesn't have any worth in it, does it? No!

I don't know about your person, but I've figured out that my ex-husband belittles people and makes them feel stupid, bad, etc., because it's a reflextion of his own personality. They need to do that in order to feel good about themselves. They are the worms!! They are the scum of the earth!! It is them that are worthless!! YOU are worthy!! YOU are good!! YOU are worth keeping as a friend!! YOU are worth getting to know better!!

Say these things to yourself over and over... "I AM worthy! I AM good!" etc. It will take some time to believe it but you will... and we're all here to tell you the same things.

<font color=blue>This above all: To thine own self be true. --Shakespeare</font color=blue>
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