oh my god i can so relate to the no sex thing, well not as much. it is so different in the begining of the relationship i think. then few weeks ago he hurt his back, he has been working more, etc . so we have not been having sex as much and although i do know why i had to open my mouth and ask him if he is still attracted to me , etc. yea he thought i was crazy! but made me feel better about everything. i hate this way of thinking!
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Originally Posted by ktbug
I can relate to all this thinking. Sometimes, (like today) it seems to consume all my thoughts. It just esculates.
My boyfriend and I hadn't had sex in a few weeks. I immediately start on him about who else he's seeing or sleeping with. Then we fight about why I don't trust him. I just don't understand why I don't trust him. I read the other posts about "signs" but there aren't any. His friends say he's the most loyal guy, but I just can't stop thinking like that. Then I start to think that our relationship isn't going to work and maybe things will be better with another person. He says that he loves me but I won't let him love me.
It drives me crazy that my brain is this way!!
However, I am glad that I found this website and am able to talk with other people.
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