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Old Sep 22, 2008, 01:20 PM
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Free Will,

If this was me, I think my T would encourage me to ask my system questions and see can I get some talk going on and parts communicating. Being as kind as possible to alts. and not getting angry over the sudden changes that I did not like. Doing my all to encourage talk, cooperation, disclosure among parts. Avoid anger at each other and blaming or projecting fears and worries on the alts who are there. All these things may make it easier for others to talk and be good to the other parts.

When I stopped my anger at parts I did not understand or want then the emotional atmosphere of my system calmed down and parts stopped panicking and getting aggressive with me; it got better and some talk began to happen and journal information showed up and alts began to come out and talk with our T.

If any of this helps or encourages you I would be happy. I know this is not what you wanted, but it is not a disaster, just another stage or phase to go into and through. Any positives you can discover will help and be good for you. Be kind and gentle as best you can. Just suggestions based on some experience of hostile times before cooperation began to happen.

USE TO WE HATD LESLIE COS SHE MEEN TO US. NEVR LISSEN, NEVR NIS. SHE ANGREE AT US AN US MAD AT HER TOO. FINLEE SHE LISSEN US AN BEED NIS TO US. TALK NIS, BRING BEAR TO US TO HOLD, COLORS AN PAPR. THEN WE DON HAT HER. MABEE TRUS A LITL. WE TEL HER STUF AN WE TAK TO CAROLN OWER T - ONLY SHE A C, NOT T. IT GET BETR FINLY.
I HOP THINS GET BETR FO U.

JANE, LELI, RACHEL, SPUNKY AND LESLIE AN PIXIES ALL
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