I just met with my new T for the first time today, and I let my violent alter speak to her. I didn't intervene because I thought it was important for him to expirience it himself,

But my last name is G---- and he kept insisting that his lastname was Casil.

It was funny and cute, but at the same time difficult because the therapist almost wrote down my last name on a form as Casil. But she realised he was just unaware of the situation.

But yes, it is hard sometimes, said alter also likes to dump everything I own onto the floor. No matter how often I clean or organize, the moment he comes out, he decides to dump everything. It's annoying. People think I'm a slob.

Also, some of my alters think they are older than I am. And some (this is common) are younger and insist on their age.

I usually avoid situations, where my idenity is used, I should talk to my T about that.

Good luck with this.