Hi, james seems to be ok with my talking about his dysfunctions and ocd, he wasnt for a long time, i guess it was a hushed thing his family didnt talk about. We have been married a little over a year and together for almost 3 years. I didn't learn the extend of his dysfuntions until about 3 months after we were married. Its been very difficult at times. It will be good having someone to talk to as I have not been able to talk to anyone about his problems and have felt so alone. Its almost a relief.