And old sponser of mine...had more wisdom than I will achieve in 10 lifetimes....told me once...

"Trying is lying"...

I sat perplexed..

He said did you ever ask someone to do something or for instance stop by at some gathering? They said they would try.

I said yes..

He said they probably never showed..right?

Yep...

When someone says they will try means at the very least,,they are undecided but more than likely have decided no. They just don't know how to say no...People pleasing nonsense you know...

Get your butt to the game and have a "ball"...

Have fun katie...

Lenny